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	<title>Comments on: Better Dead than Unchaste</title>
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		<title>By: Mariah</title>
		<link>http://www.fairblog.org/2008/02/20/better-dead-than-unchaste/#comment-1843</link>
		<dc:creator>Mariah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 03:44:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brigham Young preached that he would "send his daughter to her death" (Journal of Discourses) to save her from becoming unchaste.  (My personal opinion is that this statement was mainly the result of the stories about his daughter-in-law, wife of Joseph Young, and a certain Army Captain.)  During this period of time Brigham gave many speaches condemming and threatening women who were leaving with soldiers for California.

I remember a woman in my ward telling during her "testimony" that her father had told her he would rather have her dead that do something that would shame him.  (At the time she was joining one of the Services during World War II.)

I was young, but I shocked!  In her father's heart was there no room for repentance and forgiveness.  And was he so pure in every way that he would never need to repent or to ask forgiveness.

Apparently, there are still members out there that think the same way.  These members are so pure they could never need to repent or be forgiven.

Mariah</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brigham Young preached that he would &#8220;send his daughter to her death&#8221; (Journal of Discourses) to save her from becoming unchaste.  (My personal opinion is that this statement was mainly the result of the stories about his daughter-in-law, wife of Joseph Young, and a certain Army Captain.)  During this period of time Brigham gave many speaches condemming and threatening women who were leaving with soldiers for California.</p>
<p>I remember a woman in my ward telling during her &#8220;testimony&#8221; that her father had told her he would rather have her dead that do something that would shame him.  (At the time she was joining one of the Services during World War II.)</p>
<p>I was young, but I shocked!  In her father&#8217;s heart was there no room for repentance and forgiveness.  And was he so pure in every way that he would never need to repent or to ask forgiveness.</p>
<p>Apparently, there are still members out there that think the same way.  These members are so pure they could never need to repent or be forgiven.</p>
<p>Mariah</p>
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		<title>By: Adam Greenwood</title>
		<link>http://www.fairblog.org/2008/02/20/better-dead-than-unchaste/#comment-1249</link>
		<dc:creator>Adam Greenwood</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Mar 2008 17:47:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm sorta in the 'death before dishonor' camp.  But I think critics have to realize that most of these kinds of statements are exaggerations for effect.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sorta in the &#8216;death before dishonor&#8217; camp.  But I think critics have to realize that most of these kinds of statements are exaggerations for effect.</p>
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		<title>By: Aaron Johanson</title>
		<link>http://www.fairblog.org/2008/02/20/better-dead-than-unchaste/#comment-1045</link>
		<dc:creator>Aaron Johanson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Mar 2008 19:05:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>These people employ the same tactics against Freemasonry, altering quotations, taking quotes from non-Masons and inferring that these people were "important Masons", quoting out of context, etc. One of the worst offenders is John Ankerberg who has written a book which, upon examination of his techniques and sources, is a fraud coppied from anti-Masonic works whichare quoted as authoritative. He also quotes from "former" Masons who weren't.

He has done a similar hit job on Mormonism.

It is very hard to counter these people in a one on one debate as they selectively alter material from tens of thousands of pages of material written over centuries. No one can be expected to answer these charges on the spur of the moment. It requires sometimes extensive research to uncover what they have twisted.

All of these people worship Mammon and sell their lies to a hardcore audience predisposed to believe this bile.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These people employ the same tactics against Freemasonry, altering quotations, taking quotes from non-Masons and inferring that these people were &#8220;important Masons&#8221;, quoting out of context, etc. One of the worst offenders is John Ankerberg who has written a book which, upon examination of his techniques and sources, is a fraud coppied from anti-Masonic works whichare quoted as authoritative. He also quotes from &#8220;former&#8221; Masons who weren&#8217;t.</p>
<p>He has done a similar hit job on Mormonism.</p>
<p>It is very hard to counter these people in a one on one debate as they selectively alter material from tens of thousands of pages of material written over centuries. No one can be expected to answer these charges on the spur of the moment. It requires sometimes extensive research to uncover what they have twisted.</p>
<p>All of these people worship Mammon and sell their lies to a hardcore audience predisposed to believe this bile.</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Fields</title>
		<link>http://www.fairblog.org/2008/02/20/better-dead-than-unchaste/#comment-858</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Fields</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Feb 2008 19:38:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had to correct myself. The Evangelical woman that committed suicide was i think 30 not 13. I bet we could dig up stories of sixteen year old Evangelicals who commited suicide over guilt for sin.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had to correct myself. The Evangelical woman that committed suicide was i think 30 not 13. I bet we could dig up stories of sixteen year old Evangelicals who commited suicide over guilt for sin.</p>
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		<title>By: kwk</title>
		<link>http://www.fairblog.org/2008/02/20/better-dead-than-unchaste/#comment-843</link>
		<dc:creator>kwk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 16:51:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think many of the "chaste or death" statements are trying to imply that impurity of spirit is worse than physical death.  These are the type of statements that are meant to create zealous and strict obedience to commandments and that sound really bad when taken literally.  I can see why phrasing like that has been used - it can be difficult to impart the seriousness of the law of chastity while telling youth that they can always repent and be forgiven if they break it.  

On the other hand, I'm sure there will always be the fanatic, close-minded, vocal member of the church who will preach this kind of thing over the pulpit as truth.  Most of the time we just brush off "crazy Brother So-and-so's" comments, and we forget that the impressionable out there might not know where we actually stand on something like this.  

I think about 99.99% of adults in the world have broken the LOC (if you include masturbation).  According to these goofballs, I guess I'm supposed to believe that it was God's will that they all should have died before they did it.

I hope intelligent people give LDS a little more credit than that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think many of the &#8220;chaste or death&#8221; statements are trying to imply that impurity of spirit is worse than physical death.  These are the type of statements that are meant to create zealous and strict obedience to commandments and that sound really bad when taken literally.  I can see why phrasing like that has been used - it can be difficult to impart the seriousness of the law of chastity while telling youth that they can always repent and be forgiven if they break it.  </p>
<p>On the other hand, I&#8217;m sure there will always be the fanatic, close-minded, vocal member of the church who will preach this kind of thing over the pulpit as truth.  Most of the time we just brush off &#8220;crazy Brother So-and-so&#8217;s&#8221; comments, and we forget that the impressionable out there might not know where we actually stand on something like this.  </p>
<p>I think about 99.99% of adults in the world have broken the LOC (if you include masturbation).  According to these goofballs, I guess I&#8217;m supposed to believe that it was God&#8217;s will that they all should have died before they did it.</p>
<p>I hope intelligent people give LDS a little more credit than that.</p>
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		<title>By: Allen Wyatt</title>
		<link>http://www.fairblog.org/2008/02/20/better-dead-than-unchaste/#comment-842</link>
		<dc:creator>Allen Wyatt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 16:33:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very cute, tiredmormon -- but not true.

Wanna see a good explanation of how the LDS approach doctrine? (Or at least SHOULD approach it?) See the article &lt;a href="http://www.newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/commentary/approaching-mormon-doctrine" rel="nofollow"&gt;Approaching Mormon Doctrine&lt;/a&gt; on the Church's Web site.

-Allen</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very cute, tiredmormon &#8212; but not true.</p>
<p>Wanna see a good explanation of how the LDS approach doctrine? (Or at least SHOULD approach it?) See the article <a href="http://www.newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/commentary/approaching-mormon-doctrine" rel="nofollow">Approaching Mormon Doctrine</a> on the Church&#8217;s Web site.</p>
<p>-Allen</p>
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		<title>By: tiredmormon</title>
		<link>http://www.fairblog.org/2008/02/20/better-dead-than-unchaste/#comment-841</link>
		<dc:creator>tiredmormon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 15:11:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The definition of doctrine is EASY people:

Whenever we are called on any specific belief in a public setting (like GBH on LK) that makes us uncomfortable, that belief is undoctrinal. Who cares how many prophets, seers, and revelators said it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The definition of doctrine is EASY people:</p>
<p>Whenever we are called on any specific belief in a public setting (like GBH on LK) that makes us uncomfortable, that belief is undoctrinal. Who cares how many prophets, seers, and revelators said it?</p>
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		<title>By: austin</title>
		<link>http://www.fairblog.org/2008/02/20/better-dead-than-unchaste/#comment-839</link>
		<dc:creator>austin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 07:28:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Allen, I don't think it's that easy to dismiss as not church doctrine.  I too don't believe it is church doctrine, but let's face it, the LDS church doesn't have a very rigorous definition of what is and what isn't "doctrine."  I don't even know if we have an unrigorous definition of it.  A teaching being taught widely in church could very understandably be considered church doctrine, especially when it is also taught in General Conference and in a book by a prophet.  I think that a good many bishops wouldn't correct or talk to a teacher or speaker that espoused this view in a gospel doctrine class or in a sacrament meeting talk.

Again, I agree that this doesn't make it church doctrine, but that's using my definition of doctrine, and I can definitely see how a lot of church members would see it as doctrine if it is condoned, if not at times taught, by members of the church hierarchy.  One could make a plausible argument that the words of living prophets being scripture, this is indeed a doctrine of our church.  I would disagree, but I don't think that such an argument is completely baseless or absurd.

I'm with Duncan in hoping that the church begins to correct those who teach it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Allen, I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s that easy to dismiss as not church doctrine.  I too don&#8217;t believe it is church doctrine, but let&#8217;s face it, the LDS church doesn&#8217;t have a very rigorous definition of what is and what isn&#8217;t &#8220;doctrine.&#8221;  I don&#8217;t even know if we have an unrigorous definition of it.  A teaching being taught widely in church could very understandably be considered church doctrine, especially when it is also taught in General Conference and in a book by a prophet.  I think that a good many bishops wouldn&#8217;t correct or talk to a teacher or speaker that espoused this view in a gospel doctrine class or in a sacrament meeting talk.</p>
<p>Again, I agree that this doesn&#8217;t make it church doctrine, but that&#8217;s using my definition of doctrine, and I can definitely see how a lot of church members would see it as doctrine if it is condoned, if not at times taught, by members of the church hierarchy.  One could make a plausible argument that the words of living prophets being scripture, this is indeed a doctrine of our church.  I would disagree, but I don&#8217;t think that such an argument is completely baseless or absurd.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m with Duncan in hoping that the church begins to correct those who teach it.</p>
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		<title>By: Allen Wyatt</title>
		<link>http://www.fairblog.org/2008/02/20/better-dead-than-unchaste/#comment-837</link>
		<dc:creator>Allen Wyatt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 05:22:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Duncan,

Just because you "hear it in church" (even many times) does not make it Church doctrine.

Even in this critic's video, none of the quotes indicate that what is being taught is official Church doctrine. At 1:08 into the video the quote makes it clear that it is the parents sending children out with "the direction" about the value of their chastity. It is not the Church. It even says "many is the parent" who has sent youth out this way, not that all should.

In a later quote, at 2:58 into the video, President Romney makes it clear that this "doctrine" was taught to him by his parents for the purpose of impressing upon him the seriousness of chastity. This "doctrine" was one chosen by his parents, not codified by the Church, and President Romney used it to likewise illustrate the point to the youth with whom he was trying to communicate.

This is a method of teaching, not a doctrine of the Church. It is no more a doctrine of the Church than the "ruined cake" object lesson many teachers used to illustrate a point about pre-marital sex.

-Allen</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Duncan,</p>
<p>Just because you &#8220;hear it in church&#8221; (even many times) does not make it Church doctrine.</p>
<p>Even in this critic&#8217;s video, none of the quotes indicate that what is being taught is official Church doctrine. At 1:08 into the video the quote makes it clear that it is the parents sending children out with &#8220;the direction&#8221; about the value of their chastity. It is not the Church. It even says &#8220;many is the parent&#8221; who has sent youth out this way, not that all should.</p>
<p>In a later quote, at 2:58 into the video, President Romney makes it clear that this &#8220;doctrine&#8221; was taught to him by his parents for the purpose of impressing upon him the seriousness of chastity. This &#8220;doctrine&#8221; was one chosen by his parents, not codified by the Church, and President Romney used it to likewise illustrate the point to the youth with whom he was trying to communicate.</p>
<p>This is a method of teaching, not a doctrine of the Church. It is no more a doctrine of the Church than the &#8220;ruined cake&#8221; object lesson many teachers used to illustrate a point about pre-marital sex.</p>
<p>-Allen</p>
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		<title>By: Duncan</title>
		<link>http://www.fairblog.org/2008/02/20/better-dead-than-unchaste/#comment-834</link>
		<dc:creator>Duncan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:54:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I've heard this "teaching" many times growing up in the church (I'm 32).  To say it is not church doctrine is something I don't understand because I learned it in church many times.  Yes, it does seem to contradict the principle of forgiveness and personally, the idea makes me sick to my stomach, but I have never heard any leader come out and say that it is not church doctrine.  If it is not church doctrine, then the church should correct those that continue to teach it and not just hope it goes away.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve heard this &#8220;teaching&#8221; many times growing up in the church (I&#8217;m 32).  To say it is not church doctrine is something I don&#8217;t understand because I learned it in church many times.  Yes, it does seem to contradict the principle of forgiveness and personally, the idea makes me sick to my stomach, but I have never heard any leader come out and say that it is not church doctrine.  If it is not church doctrine, then the church should correct those that continue to teach it and not just hope it goes away.</p>
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